Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Of special concern

The other night I was flipping through one of my favorite parenting books (the fantastically folksy, yet ever correct, "Mother's Almanac") brushing up on 3mth milestones. Imagine my surprise when, under the "Of special concern" section, right next to twins and disability, was three sons. It read:

"There must be a special place in heaven for mothers of three sons. You certainly can tell them on earth. They're those ladies with amused, bemused faces and an amazing tolerance for disaster-for they have learned that shouting doesn't help.
No other combination of children, not even twins, can create so much chaos or camaraderie. Even the most introspective child will join the team-them against you-and like all good players, they encourage each other to bigger feats of daring.
We recommend the advice of so many successful mothers of three boys. Give them as much outdoor playtime as possible and indoors set up two rooms: one for sleeping with nothing but beds and bureaus, and the other for playing, with much climbing equipment.
You will be frazzled in the early years but when your boys grow up, we think you'll find yourself perhaps more treasured than most other mothers."

Here's to my special place in heaven with an angel waiting :)
And, of "special concern"...
"bigger feats of daring"
Soon enough he'll be actively on "the team" instead of just cheering


Thursday, August 12, 2010

What I came home to today...





First day of School, First day of School!

Both Matts and Gray started school on August 5th. It's crazy early, but Cobb county is trying out a balanced schedule, so we'll be getting a few extra weeks off during the year. In the interest of the "Making Memories" enrichment I'm putting on tonight this will be much longer than usual. For those who want the short version; Matts did great, we're pleasantly surprised with the public school and he's already arranged the all important crew. Gray did great as well but just can't understand why all the other kids don't follow all the directions all the time. Christian is in baby heaven. I swear he already knows when it's his time. I have a love/hate relationship with only having one kid T/W/TH. Half the time I plan all the projects I can accomplish, the other half I run around like a chicken trying to get everything done before the kiddos get home so I can give them "quality" time.

I think Matts' first day was great. He's apparently past the stage of telling me every detail, but based on his cheerful attitude in the evening, I'm assuming things are going well. The first day about broke my heart when I asked him what he did at recess and he said he walked around by himself kicking rocks at trees. But, the next day he played with Larry, the next day played with Larry and a girl named Underdog :) and as of today, has a crew up and running. Also, even on that first day he told me "Mom, I like my teacher, she always has time to listen to what I say". So; so far, so good.
Gray marched right into his classroom and hasn't looked back. In fact, this week the school has us walking them in and Gray everyday tries to assure me that I can just drop him off, he's really ok. In addition to his extreme independence I've also discovered that, when given the chance, Gray will not stop talking. Seriously, this kid gives me running commentary from the time he wakes up until we pick up Matts in carpool. After that, he and Matts are too busy running around making up for lost time to stop and talk.
All in all, a crazy and good week. It's hard to believe that we have a school age child. Reed had to talk me off the cliff as I swore I was never sending Matts to school. He very wisely pointed out that 6 year olds all across the world are capable of finding their classrooms, eating lunch, making friends and making it out to carpool. I also can't believe that Gray is ready to head off to school and he is SO ready. He just seems to be our little cartoon who goes through life enjoying everyone and everything. Finally, I can't believe I have 3 boys. Throughout the week, and especially in sacrament meeting, I look down the row and shake my head with a bemused expression. It's all just so unexpectedly wonderful. It's a strange feeling to know that the things you've taught your child are being put to use as they spend the majority of their day away from you and will now be acting so much more independently. I can only hope that we've taught them well. Taught them to be resilient, confident and above all, kind.

Monday, July 26, 2010

Dinner Time

Just a quick glance into a typical dinner at our house. The cast includes; the audience, the living cartoon, the patient princess and the tough guy.


2 months and counting

Here's to the most surprising pleasant 2 months of my life. Christian is just a happy, happy little monkey. Now that we've gotten his reflux under control he's really just happy to be along for the ride. However, in order to deal with the craziness that is our life, Christian has developed social narcolepsy and whenever he gets around large groups of people he simply conks out until the crowd are gone. Finally,not to brag, but 2 days before we came home from Utah Christian decided to sleep from 11-7. Yep, we have ourselves a winner.

The Newell Extravaganza

One of the best things about Utah is that we get to see both families. Granted, it can get a little crazy, but it's great. This year we not only got to see my family, but also all my living Grandparents as well as Reed's Aunt and Uncle. Add all that family to 4th of July festivities and you have a recipe for endless entertainment.

Peterson Party

We just got back from a fabulous 3 weeks in Utah. It was the perfect mix of parties, outdoors and lots and lots of cousin time! We even got to meet Robby for the first time and he is a sweet, big bear of a boy. A highlight was definitely the twin's bday party. Holly threw an adorable party that Matts and Gray LOVED. Unlimited ice cream and toppings = SCORE!